Small Thought.  The word love is often overused and misunderstood
in relationships.  There are two kinds of love: THE IMAGINARY LOVE
AND THE REAL LOVE.  
The first one,  is based on no solid foundation, on illusion, on fantasy
and unfortunately, it is doomed to failure.
The second one, is based on affinity, sacrifice, concession,  patience,
comprehension ,compassion and fortunately it is doomed to live.
We should always try to prevent the imaginary love to flow into
the real love and  overwhelms it.  Viva