Small Thought.   YOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT YOUR TROPHIES. 
Do not live your own dreams through your child or children.  Let them live their own dreams.
Let them embark on their journey with confidence, even if it is different from the one you have chosen for them
Ultimately, being in a career in which they are not interested or not able to do well, is not the path
to HAPPINESS.
As parents, you have to accept your children as they are and  never be ashamed or embarrassed
if they fail . Most importantly, do not allow social pressure to dominate their life and destroy their dreams.    Viva